I have to write a post about the elderly people here, los viejos.
They are awesome. There is huge respect for them. The best example I can give is on the buses. There is no question that when an elderly person gets on the bus, you get up and offer your seat...SIEMPRE (always). It gets to the point that one elderly person will off their seat to another and they bicker, not over trying to take the seat but insisting the other take it.
I know people in the states do this but it seems more prominent here. Maybe because they haven't all moved to Florida for the weather? Maybe because they use public transit more? Maybe I just didn't notice when I was home? Whatever the reason, I know I dig it and will definitely be bringing this back with me.
When I get lost and need directions, I usually turn to a vieja, since I figure it slightly lessens my chances of getting mugged. They are so helpful. Actually, the are too helpful. After giving me the directions, and I've said okay, gracias, entiendo, they just keep going. Telling me the same thing again, adding new things. It's really nice that they want to be sure I've got it but now I know to only ask if I really need the help or I've got 20 minutes to spare.
It's not just the viejos, they just exemplify it best, that show such a strong sense of respect. Almost everyone crosses themselves when passing a church; people on the street; your cab driver; people on the bus. You'll mainly see the elderly people do it but it's sweet when you see the young tattooed guy do it as well.
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